For The Love Of God, Stop Saying LGBTQI+
If you want to talk about lesbians and gays, say LGB. If you want to talk about crossing-dressing men in the women's bathroom, don't bring us into it. Stop forcing victims to remain with their abuser.
I’ve a brief nit to pick.
While the federal government has deigned to replace the term ‘LGTBQI+’ with ‘LGB’ in some instances, I’m still seeing a lot of ‘LGTBQI+’ in the media, both left, and right, and the center and also the alt-left and the alt-right and in your uncle’s daily newsletter Stuff I Read On The Last AOL Chatroom Still Online: How Whitewater Is Still A Big Scandal.
What does the homosexual - a man, or woman, who is exclusively sexually and romantically attracted to the same sex as themselves, have to do with
Attempts at sex changes on children, most of whom are actually going to grow up gay if left alone instead of forced into a farcical facsimile of being straight (i.e child transition is conversion therapy by another name)
Male cross-dressing fetishists in women’s sports, bathrooms, and prison cells? Oh, and don’t forget their invasion of lesbian spaces either. Lesbians are the biggest, most victimized demographic of biological women in all this mess, and they’re the women who are victimized by autogynephiles the most.
Women who fetishize ‘uwu soft gay bois’ so hard they decide to become ‘gay trans men’ and invade gay male spaces while calling themselves ‘three holed faggots’?
People with rare medical conditions and chromosomal disorders, which has nothing to do with literally none of the other letters?
I’ve begun to see people claiming that Trump is going too far, that we need to provide for the ‘dignity and safety’ of ‘trans people’. I’ve seen this from a lot of centrist outlets that would considered gender critical adjacent, and it’s ludicrous. Trump has not gone too far. You cannot negotiate with a man who is so far gone into his autogynephilic cross-dressing fetish that he believes he is a woman, or at least believes that everyone should play along for his ‘gender euphoria’ (i.e saying no makes his penis feel sad, and that’s basically the Holocaust). It’s not happening. Lesbians and gays tried being nice, lesbians especially, and all that’s left us with is the complete destruction of the gay community.
Frankly, they’ve not let lesbians and gays live in ‘dignity and security’ for the past twenty years. The minute we got some legal rights, men with receding hairlines were trying to claw their way in, claiming they’d worked hard to be women and given up privilege, so please just let me into the potluck. Now lesbians and gays have nothing and an openness to straight sex with these people is constantly demanded of us. Even a gay man can’t say he only wants dicks on fucking Grindr or he is banned for not being ‘LGBTQI+’ inclusive.
I’ve got very little sympathy. As should any gay or lesbian person. Why should I worry about a group of people who colonized my community getting told no, they can’t do that anymore? I’m too busy throwing a party, because I can finally throw a lesbian party without being sued or attacked by men wanting in because they have an F on their driver’s license and I’m an awful hater for thinking their ‘girl cock’1 has nothing to do with female homosexuality.
That’s the thing with this forced teaming - now, suddenly a whole host of lesbians and gays are fearful for their ‘LGBTQI+ rights’. LGB rights haven’t been touched and are unlikely to be touched by the Trump Administration. Taking away ‘the right’ of a male swimmer to steal women’s championships and flash his dick around in a women’s locker room has nothing to do with two women getting married to one another.
It’s dangerous to us to pretend otherwise. We are getting lumped in with a group of sex pests and quack doctors that have very little to do with us whatsoever. The backlash to all this threatens our acceptance, even though our community was victimized the most.
The biggest victims of the ‘LGBTQI+ community’ and its overreach were the first three letters of that acronym. We’ve lost our community, our spaces, we’ve had rape threats, death threats, sexual assaults, conversion therapy, hate crimes, murders, all from the TQ+ and all directed at the members of the LGB community who told these straight fetishists to fuck off and leave the kids alone.
And before I hear one more Roman bust avatar start talking about ‘the slippery slope’ and we warned you this would happen, first it was the buttfucking degenerates, now it’s the transgender pedophiles, I’ve got some really great news for you! The sex offending men in women’s federal prisons? They’re straight. That Thomas creature who stole medals? He’s straight. In fact, the vast, vast majority of the ‘TQI+’ movement is heterosexual. They’re as straight as you! This has nothing to do with us carpet eaters and butt fuckers, you moron. So before you start ranting on about ‘degenerate faggotry’, get your own fucking house in order, Mr. Heterosexual.
Now that I’ve finished my profanity laden, angry rant, I’ve got one simple request to make of the media, especially media that leans gender critical in any fashion:
Stop saying ‘LGBTQI+’. Say ‘LGB’ and ‘the transgender movement (TQ+)’. Stop saying ‘LGBTI, or ‘LGBT’, or ‘GLBT’ or ‘TLGB’ or ‘TLGBTIESDD2K39AFJ2QRTJ98AWTSD’
If you’re going to talk about gay and lesbian issues, say LGB.
If you’re going to talk about the trans movement, say TQI+.
Otherwise all you’re doing is forcing victims to remain with their abuser.
Transgender issues have nothing to do with gay and lesbians, outside of their demands to colonize our community and have straight sex with them, all because they believe they said the right magic words and performed the correct medical rituals to make themselves the opposite sex. Gays and lesbians are the primary victims of this movement and don’t you forget it.
See, when this is all over, these people can return to straight lives and forget they ever spent five years of their life harassing gays and lesbians and ruined their entire community, as can their orbiters.
Gays and lesbians can’t really change being gay or lesbian and have been left to pick up the pieces and try and rebuild what we can out of our shattered community. An entire generation of gays and lesbians have had less community than even our elders had in the 1960s, and more of us than ever faced state sanctioned conversion therapy in the past ten years. What use are legal rights if you’ve no one to exercise them with? When being openly gay under the DEI regime meant being openly fired/censored/cancelled/threatened with violence for being ‘transphobic’?
It’s like referring to black people and Rachel Dolezal as the same thing. They’re obviously not, and neither is Scrotia McBoogerballs the ‘trans lesbian’ the same as Jane Smith, actual lesbian, nor is Aidan Vaginahaver the same as John Doe, gay man. Would you refer to ‘those who are cis racial and transracial’, or the CRTR community? Hell no. You coin terms like ‘Pretendians’ and cast Rachel Dolezal as a ridiculous figure.
So why, in the same situation, is it OK to do the same thing to lesbians and gays? Go on, tell me. Why aren’t you calling these men ‘Pretendbians?’
Please, leave us out of this nonsense, unless you’re reporting on the destruction they’ve wrought on lesbians and gays.
LGB, Drop The T.
Unkindest regards,
Sue Donym


With this and your previous post, you are now absolutely my favourite lesbian, feminist writer. I love your take on things and your writing style. Fingers crossed for another go at posting on Facebook 🤞🤞🤞
Great rant. Thanks!